tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post5549549086044729317..comments2023-11-02T07:02:29.715-06:00Comments on The Young and The Relentless: MulliganConniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11868956367266325927noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-41077982079029263992012-05-01T17:50:54.500-06:002012-05-01T17:50:54.500-06:00I think you have to remember and appreciate the fa...I think you have to remember and appreciate the fact that you explored all avenues for him! We live and we learn, that's the beauty of it. You are helping him succeed.EatPlayLovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01768078593549284605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-67440740496125185122012-04-29T14:54:24.726-06:002012-04-29T14:54:24.726-06:00That's awesome! I'm glad he's taking ...That's awesome! I'm glad he's taking that so well, and it sounds like that will be the best for him. (look a Motel 6!)<br />:)<br />Can't wait to see you!Vivienne @ the V Spothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11423346418730195821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-58435508757542963042012-04-29T10:20:25.076-06:002012-04-29T10:20:25.076-06:00kids handle things way better then we dokids handle things way better then we doRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213055916162799647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-57067412848432053552012-04-27T09:23:17.191-06:002012-04-27T09:23:17.191-06:00What a friggin awesome attitude he has!!
I would ...What a friggin awesome attitude he has!!<br /><br />I would love to be able to have some do-overs in life. Many. Lots. Tons of'em.<br /><br />Kids can be so cool. With that attitude, he's a winner in my book!Carrie - ASassyRedhead.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01630927332651091393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-64547483791408012362012-04-26T22:00:05.387-06:002012-04-26T22:00:05.387-06:00Oh sweetie, thanks for keeping it real but for doi...Oh sweetie, thanks for keeping it real but for doing it with a sense of humor. As I read this I was nodding with understanding. Our middle one was diagnosed with a form of dyslexia in the spring of his 1st grade year. My first reaction was something along the lines of disbelief that we had reproduced someone less than perfect.... not one of my finer moments. I've grown a lot since then. It was never suggested that James repeat 1st grade but looking back on that time I really wish we had gone that route. We relocated to Iowa during that summer and it would have made so much sense. In the end, with the help of some special ed instruction and an outside tutor and a couple years of maturity he began to develop some coping strategies and study techniques. Sometimes I think boys just mature slower and maybe their brains haven't developed enough for some of these skills. Another year can make a huge difference. I so wish we had done what you are doing because I think there would have been a whole lot less self esteem damage for us to contend with later. It was rough when he wasn't reading on par with his classmates and kids can be harsh. In the end he not only found his way through the reading maze but he thrived. We like to think that he is a success story -he graduated as a pretty solid B student, a varsity swimmer, student leadership council, and no DUI's or arrests. :D <br />Hey we consider ourselves stellar parents by now that all three have graduated from high school, one is out of college, two are still attending . Although we are reminding one that just because you keep attending that junior college for a number of years you will not end up with a doctorate. :D We think we should be up for some sort of parenting award though because thus far we have kept our daughter off the pole and our boys out of jail. :D<br /><br />It is all going to be fine. This is way harder on you than it is on Alex.<br />hugs,<br />pBe Colorful Coastalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03244943047184703669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-48184384061004433702012-04-26T20:41:05.674-06:002012-04-26T20:41:05.674-06:00a mulligan is the perfect way to describe it! I kn...a mulligan is the perfect way to describe it! I know that must have been tough but it sounds like he'd really benefit from it.stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11867367009753052541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-52777140557804791232012-04-26T16:12:30.485-06:002012-04-26T16:12:30.485-06:00I know first hand hat you're going throw, trus...I know first hand hat you're going throw, trust me when I say you made the right decision!Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01733703366959400497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-78108715497187764672012-04-26T11:46:20.162-06:002012-04-26T11:46:20.162-06:00I'm so sorry. I sobbed the day I decided to p...I'm so sorry. I sobbed the day I decided to pull Lucas out of kindergarten and wait a year. I felt like a total failure. But now almost two years later as he is finishing up his first grade year I am so so glad we did that and he is doing worlds better and he doesn't feel bad or even think about the fact that we did that.Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14675419215475635276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-47721572402120849162012-04-26T07:16:31.943-06:002012-04-26T07:16:31.943-06:00Kids are so funny sometimes. We agonize over the ...Kids are so funny sometimes. We agonize over the big stuff and they usually just bounce onto the next thing. So glad he has made progress and that he will have the extra year to grow and hopefully they can get a better picture of what is going on. Many times it is just that the boys need some extra time for the academic stuff....it is why we really shouldn't push academics on anyone until age 7. Oh well...so sorry that this year has been so hard on you guys but glad to hear that Alex is doing great despite all that has been going on. Hoping K/1 is an AWESOME year for all!!!Raising Z and Lil Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17505706769927770546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-83019472022965977112012-04-25T21:31:28.036-06:002012-04-25T21:31:28.036-06:00My heart goes out to you and your family. I know t...My heart goes out to you and your family. I know this is stressful, but it is the best thing. He will do so much better next year and will excel in K-1. You are such good, no scratch that, GREAT parents! Hugs to you. It's going to be ok!Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15797196400402207526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-50812561455906559142012-04-25T17:07:44.740-06:002012-04-25T17:07:44.740-06:00Not an easy decision, but Alex will be so much bet...Not an easy decision, but Alex will be so much better off for it.Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15906650088996229896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-65722690656718533482012-04-25T12:38:16.031-06:002012-04-25T12:38:16.031-06:00Don't you hate it how we as parents think ring...Don't you hate it how we as parents think rings are are the end of the world and it takes our kids to put it all in perspective for us?? Sounds like Alex is going to be FINE momma - you are making the right decision!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09116026852097580008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-18060670111886591912012-04-25T11:35:11.144-06:002012-04-25T11:35:11.144-06:00Aw, I'm sorry. I know that must have been real...Aw, I'm sorry. I know that must have been really hard for you. It's a good decision, and I think you'll end up being happy that you did it this way.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09766716788178729762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-58245239744303509022012-04-25T11:19:12.332-06:002012-04-25T11:19:12.332-06:00Parents know the best interests of their children,...Parents know the best interests of their children, I have no doubt...you're doing what's right for your boy, and it will all work out for the best!! :)Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11801639163897040531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-4604759396131302522012-04-25T10:57:47.719-06:002012-04-25T10:57:47.719-06:00I think you made the best decision too! I know ho...I think you made the best decision too! I know how hard you must be thinking about this, hope you feel some peace soon.Mrs. Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11391375043884291230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-30682261605333199132012-04-25T09:10:24.235-06:002012-04-25T09:10:24.235-06:00I agree with what Christina said. He needs to love...I agree with what Christina said. He needs to love school and he won't if he's having to struggle to keep up. You made the right decision.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-24429190655523350012012-04-25T08:40:48.321-06:002012-04-25T08:40:48.321-06:00Ooops Allison made me post my comment too soon.
...Ooops Allison made me post my comment too soon. <br /><br />Glad Alex didn't take it hard. He'll have a great year!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-58839729344158562862012-04-25T08:38:36.151-06:002012-04-25T08:38:36.151-06:00There was a few years that I wanted a do over for ...There was a few years that I wanted a do over for Ryan and the school wouldn't let it happen. They felt if he was held back a year he would quit in high school.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-44664008254159181272012-04-25T08:32:52.613-06:002012-04-25T08:32:52.613-06:00Next year will be great. I know it! Hugs!Next year will be great. I know it! Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-71200176083288960332012-04-25T08:01:56.818-06:002012-04-25T08:01:56.818-06:00Wow, that's a great reaction from him! And you...Wow, that's a great reaction from him! And you are doing the right thing to not push him ahead. It's so important that he loves school and enjoys it. If he ended up struggling and struggling and struggling in 1st and 2nd ... he'd get discouraged fast. <br /><br />Hugs, Connie! (We kept our son from starting kindergarten an extra year. It was the right decision for him!)Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329101808541847741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-18632322831658353372012-04-25T07:57:12.033-06:002012-04-25T07:57:12.033-06:00But the thing with this is that YOU made the decis...But the thing with this is that YOU made the decision. It wasn't made for you, and 12 years down the road when he's getting ready to graduate, you'll see that this do-over was the best thing you could have given him for success. :)<br /><br />Hugs!Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-10647678436592691012012-04-25T07:56:46.854-06:002012-04-25T07:56:46.854-06:00I know right!
I'm still trying to get over ...I know right! <br /><br />I'm still trying to get over this.....Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11868956367266325927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6404184853489521137.post-31440052029276904722012-04-25T07:50:03.295-06:002012-04-25T07:50:03.295-06:00Kids are so freaking resilient. I wish it was that...Kids are so freaking resilient. I wish it was that easy for us mommas.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16666910475457302786noreply@blogger.com